Bad points of online dating
The year is 2015, so our collective attachment to our phones is nothing we should be ashamed of at all.
Whether we hate it or embrace it, technology has changed how we do just about everything, including dating.
Whether you're a newcomer to the world of online dating or a veteran like myself, here are seven things that often get left out of conversations about apps like Ok Cupid and Tinder — I don't mean to scare you off, but you should be aware that online dating isn't all love-at-first-sight (or awesome casual sex).
This will not come as a shock to anyone as entrenched in the online dating world as me, but it seems people rarely talk about the fact that actively using dating apps is hard effing work.
There's hardly a single millennial alive who isn't an avid user of dating apps: They're a fast and easy way to meet hundreds of potential partners, or just an extremely effective method of procrastination.
OK, Catfish may be a popular TV show, but most people don't think this could ever actually happen to them IRL.It's often talked about in a funny, "haha that's so crazy" way, but the reality is that — and I don't mean to sound dramatic — there are real weirdos and predators out there.From scams to get your money to people posing as someone else for attention, catfishing does happen, and you should always be on your guard.Don't be afraid to Google stalk — if you want to meet someone, it's your right to actually confirm their existence before hanging out (or even chatting) with them.Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage?