Asking for rougher sex really does just boil down to having an actual Grown Ups Using Potentially Formal-Sounding Words discussion with your partner. " because that could mean 40 different things and odds are, you'll only want it to mean a very specific 10 things. I can't stress enough the importance of having a pre-sex conversation about your own limits and making sure that he understands them — and I mean really, really understands them, not just "gets the gist". (And back to the thing, if you're at his place, a tie makes a real nice blindfold or wrist binder.) 3. Don't be afraid to say "Oh hell no" when he's gone too damn far.
You can even have him repeat them back to you to make sure you're not playing a game of sexy telephone (Cut to: You whisper "light bondage" in his ear and somehow next thing you know you're in a sex swing with a whip like, "Not this at all! If you don't know where to start: hair-pulling, spanking, wrist-tying, and blindfolding are popular ones. If once you get into it you realize "eh, spanking isn't for me" or "ow, too hard! " you need to feel comfortable saying, "back off, bro." Seriously, do not engage in even the slightest amount of rough sex play if you feel like you can't communicate your needs with him.
I flipped my daughter over and shoved my cock back in her sopping wet pussy and pounded the shit out my little girl.Sliding his arms under her, he reached up and grabbed her shoulders, pulling her toward him as he rammed his cock deep. Again, Gary watched as Gen’s face twisted in erotic frenzy…Continue reading He pulled her roughly into his lap and she felt his hard cock pressing up against her bitten and swollen clit.Instinctively she ground against him despite what she knew was to come.If you're reading this right now, you've probably had a moment when you were hooking up with a guy and thought, "God it would be so great if he pulled my hair right now," but it feels so weird to ask someone that — not to mention it can seem legitimately scary to ask someone to be a little rougher with you, but not so rough you end up in your own episode. At any rate, I didn't pick one up," that'll put a pause on that right quick.But just because it seems scary and weird doesn't make it impossible to do. Tell him you want to be tied up and spanked, no more, no less. So when you say, "I want you to tie my wrists above my head and then fuck me," get out the tie and tell him when it's tight enough but not too tight and then get into the position you want him to fuck you in. Even if it's just a t-shirt or a scarf, have it by the bed so when you ask and he says yes, you can go for it.