Straight guys chat
when I was motivated to write more honest, meaningful and longer articles.To be honest, it’s a little uncomfortable to revisit this.You won’t label somebody as “different” if they’re left-handed will you?Gay is not an epidemic So I like hanging out with gay people. (Side note: It’s easier to hit on a girl in a gay bar.
And then they call these girls bitches, sluts or whores because they got rejected.
I told him about the time I followed some friends to a gay bar and there was this older, gay dude hitting on me. Maybe he lost a bet, was drunk, just horsing around or that he thought it was a dismissable act of bromance. He said most straight guys wouldn’t feel the same and that I had a high tolerance for gay people. Conventionally, if a person is homophobic, he is homophobic. Also, if a gay guy hits on me, I take it as you behaving normal and I respect that.
Being somebody who lacks empathy aside, he simply cannot tolerate the idea of another male getting too close to him, especially if it’s physical. If however, a straight guy acts gay, or carries out typically gay actions around and, or on me, it is not normal and it’s weird. When your own friends aren’t themselves for whatever reason, it is weird. Even if it’s a joke, the weirdness is highly amplified because it is out of character and what more, if he is homophobic in the first place.
The only sad part is they’re pretty quiet as it is.
Some of these guys are still a little embarrassed to show that they’re sensitive or like to hang out with gay friends, so much so they over compensate in other areas.